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Dear Strategic Partner – Wife,
I’m prompted to write to you this morning!
I see that you enjoy the glamour, the success, the comfort, the attention and the upsides that comes with your spouse’s achievements.
Yes, your spouse is achieved some level of success in his business/ career life / on a journey to achieving it.
I perceive you are so focused on running your own Agenda / children that you are not even sensitive to your Partner’s need for support- Time, Attention, Counsel, Encouragement, Assurance that You are his No 1 Strategic & Committed Partner of All Time. No 1 Cheerleader in and out of Season!
I see that you are so carried away by your partner’s Business/Career success that you are now the Lead Resource “Depleter” putting him under so much and unnecessary pressure that you have become his Major distraction – making him go into alliances that were not meant to be in the first instance.
How Did you get there?: How did you get so focused on yourself and all that you can get and grab that you now so irrelevant in the VISION to which you are a major Stakeholder?
Who sold you that idea of entitlement mentality that everything should and revolves round you?
Can I be FRANK with you? Your disinterest in what your spouse does/ doing; your lack of honor and disrespect for his authority/leadership has / is creating Voids.
You NEED to get in shape and in line: Be a Companion and a Partner Indeed! Your spouse need your irrevocable support and commitment in his Business /Career/Life pursuits.
DON’T be a partner who is interested only in Upside but couldn’t be bothered committing to the process.
Romans 12: 9-10 Services puts it aptly:
” [Let your] love be sincere (a real thing); hate what is evil [loathe all ungodliness, turn in horror from wickedness], but hold fast to that which is good. 10 Love one another with brotherly affection [as members of one family], giving precedence and showing honor to one ”
Galatians 5:13-15 Advisory again explains it further:
” It is absolutely clear that God has called you to a free life. Just make sure that you don’t use this freedom as an excuse to do whatever you want to do and destroy your freedom. Rather, use your freedom to serve one another in love; that’s how freedom grows. For everything we know about God’s Word is summed up in a single sentence: Love others as you love yourself. That’s an act of true freedom. If you bite and ravage each other, watch out—in no time at all you will be annihilating each other, and where will your precious freedom be then? ”
Be that PURPOSEFUL, VALUE-ADDING, STABLE & TRUSTED Partner. That’s how True Bottomline is Guaranteed!
Alright, but you saying ” I don’t fall into those strata of cases above.
RIGHT! I’d see you tomorrow BHG!
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Have a Great Week. Good morning!